Today, I realized something. Something I've known for a good while but today I finally realized it: I just want to give.
Give. Help. Volunteer. Whatever you wanna call it. I wanna spend (most of) my life helping others. Not any god, not my country. People that need help. Be it helping an alcoholic that needs help getting through a rough time, spending a few hours in a hospital with someone who hasn't any family to visit them, it doesn't matter, not any more. Once I though 'helping' meant doing something that was for 'the greater good'. Something that would outlast me and you. You know, go to Africa, save a starving child, that kinda @!$%#. (All good if you have the opportunity too.) But you know what? I was wrong. Its about doing something, anything, be it big or small, that keeps someone else going. Living. Existing. Its about keeping people where the light is. It doesn't need to be a million miles away.
In a world where almost everyone is out for themselves I have decided to spend my time helping others, in any way that I can. Hey, that sounds a little corny, I hear you say. You're probably right. In fact, it kinda does. But if corny is doing something that brings a little hope into the sinking world we live in today then let it be corny.
Its time for me, and us all, to break free of the shackles of ourselves and start helping each other.
You never know, something good might come of it.
Good for you!
Once I though 'helping' meant doing something that was for 'the greater good'. Something that would outlast me and you. You know, go to Africa, save a starving child, that kinda @!$%#. (All good if you have the opportunity too.) But you know what? I was wrong. Its about doing something, anything, be it big or small, that keeps someone else going.
That fits in quite nicely with John and Yoko's concept: Think Globally, Act Locally.
Acrone, This is the most uplifting article I have read in some time. The rest of you out there I want to verify that there is nothing sweeter than helping others in your community. My wife Bernice and I choose to be Senior Advocates years ago. She had worked in Law Enforcement and I as a carpenter her skills include EMT training and my carpentry has come in handy. Old folks in this country seldom receive help that they don't have to pay thru the nose for and one of my qualities is the ability to get materials at nothing or I trade for. We don't charge for labor or material. We also are the Meals on Wheels operatives. I assure you no one is more grateful than a senior. Most of them have one main wish and that is to be able to live out their lives in the home they raised their children in and they fear that they will end up abandoned in some county home for the elderly, it is our goal to see that not happen. In many cases we deal with friends of ours parents, they have been forced to move far away to earn a living and they to thank us. Any of you who have time can find different programs, from big brothers-big sisters, homeless shelters etc. It is so fulfilling to see the work you put out do someone good, We dealing with seniors hear every story one can imagine our oldest clients are in their mid 90s and it is amazing to hear about things they have experienced in those 90 years. Great Great Great article here.
I am touched. You gave me a smile today. One that I needed. It's a chain reaction. Every person you help or touch, will multiply and spread the goodness. I want to give too. Thank you.
I do work for several 'not for profits' during my free time. It feels good. Am I making a difference? When someone comes up to me and says thanks, I know I am. There are lots of things you can do. One of my favorites is the 'Make A Wish' foundation. It gives you a chance to bring a little light and happines into an otherwise dismal life. It also gives the family memories to hold onto after the little one passes on.
I applaud your sense of duty in helping others. I've seen many on this site denigrate wealthy people who are donating their time and money. It's not about how much, it's more that you did something, anything to help someone beside yourself.
Please go out and do whatever feels right to you. In the end, it will help you too!
I once read a quote about Tolstoy in my mother language, and it went something like this:
We only live to ourselves when we are living for others.
I tried to look it up in English and I found this ones
Only those live who do good.
I'm guessing they both have the same source, and it's just brilliant.
I try helping on the little things, running the extra mile for someone. It just makes you feel good.
But be careful, helping someone that doesn't want to be helped creates an extremely unpleasant situation.
I assume, then, your mother language is Russian? If so, privet. Kak dela?
Nope, I'm Portuguese. The quote was in my mother language, not Tolstoi's. Sorry if I wasn't clear enough.
I read the quote on a book about Neuro-linguistic programming, by the way. Fascinating stuff.
Sorry Artur, that's what I get... you know what they say about making assumptions ;-)
I do a lot of mistakes like that too, but the truth is that assumptions lets us think one step ahead. :)
The people wo need the most help are those involved in religions. Just look at the top of Church steeples and you see a cross, thus they are suffering spiritually so much! It is wonderful to be free and to help those who suffer. I would like to find out who wants to help the politicians gain their freedom so that they can concentrate on their job!
I wish that everyone on this comment list to become newsvine friends. You all will be in my thoughts when its hot as heck and I feel tired I will think of your giving and borrow a little strength to finish my task at hand. Cause I am not shy I can say after reading your individual comments I love you all. We can make a difference in this dreadful world and the proof is in the pudding as my grandma used to say. If I have failed to get a friends request through to anyone here and you feel like it send me one. I am computer almost dumb but can offer opinion on helping and if one of you gets in over your head in your situations contact me or Bernice and we will try to help Joe Caligiuri I have never felt so good from reading a article page as this one made me feel. acrone we all owe you man you are something special
It is nice to read positive things isn't it! You made an outstanding comment yourself. Stay strong!
I tried to accept your friends request, but the system won't let me. I'll try again from another location.....
I am glad to hear that. Will you write an article introducing your group?
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